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what is safe sex really...???   5/8/2005

As we go down the road today we hear all types of people say...that they are really D/D free...is that a part of safe sex...??? Condoms are the only way to have safe sex..or unless you let your partner give you massage relief..but really what is safe sex...In one persons eyes its one thing but to another it is something different..Well to all..have safe sex...keep it clean...


1 Comments, 86 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
Starting a relationship.   5/8/2005

Do NOT use "u" to mean "you." Do NOT use "4" to mean "for." <br> When I see those two -- and some others I can't remember because I'm so angry -- I feel the girl is about 12 and/or not very bright. <br> Please, girls, use words. The right words. Check your spelling. I see lots of complaints about how men write like they're stupid -- and the women do not recognize that ...


5 Comments, 157 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Advice for first timers   5/8/2005

My wife and I are just starting with the possibility. of swinging. We enjoy sex very much and love each other with no limits. She gets hot watching porn. It turns her on big time to watch someone get it hard. She likes it hard and fast. After talking to her about it, she said it would be fun to fuck in the same room as another couple. I have seen some pic's of women in here I would love to ...


1 Comments, 142 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
So far so good   5/8/2005

We have just begun to talk about the lifestyle. And if nothing else it has strengthened our communication with each other. Its has provoked some conversations and I feel like this is something you need to talk about before doing. Has anyone had a meeting that just turned you off from meeting more people?? I want to know that after the sex you can still hang out and be friends. The sex is ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
HARD469ERS 80 M
1  Article
WHY IS IT SO HARD?   5/7/2005

IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR A REALLY NICE GUY FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP AND IT JUST DONT HAPPEN. IM NOT BAD LOOKING, HAVE A PRETTY NICE BODY, AND AM A VERY LOVING, CARING PERSON. OF COURSE I AM 61 YEARS OLD AND THAT PROBABLY REALLY TURNS OFF THE YOUNGER GUYS, BUT WHY?? WE SENIORS HAVE WEATHERED THE STORMS AND HAVE PATIENCE, MOST GENERALLY AM VERY TRUSTING AND TRUE TO THE PERSON WE ARE ...


1 Comments, 84 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
BigBlkKing4u 50 M
1  Article
Being 100% honest about what you want   5/6/2005

Relationships seem hard many times becuase we are not blunt and to the point about what we really want. It is true that compromise is necessary to develop a relationship, BUT you have to at least know what those things are that you need to compromise about. <br> I have seen from personal experience what happens when you hide away dreams, desires and wants that you have in your ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
armycowboyaz 42 M
1  Article
How to get out of an engagement?   5/4/2005

I met my current GF on this site and things were going great for a long time. We decided to get married after dating for only a few months, as soon as we agreed to get engaged she seemed to change into a total psycho. I want to break it off, but she has already transfered to a closer school and is getting out of her lease to move in with me. What can I do to let her know that I really ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
Is it really possible?   5/1/2005

Is it really possible to find “just friendship” from this site? I’m been married for 25 years and we are just now starting to emerge from the roughest time of our marriage. The one thing that has helped us is knowing it’s possible to have close friends of the opposite sex out side of the marriage. After 25 years of being tightly rapped around your partner and ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
It is all about TRUST!   4/29/2005

The base for a strong relationship is "Trust". If you trust each other, there will be no jealousy or doubt in either of your minds. <br> Remember trust is only the base, caring, consideration, love, goodwill, and commitment are needed to sustain a relationship.


1 Comments, 67 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
Reality & Relationships   4/27/2005

listen, I dont believe in anything relative to "the perfect relationship". Men are never satisfied with that woman that go the extra mile for them. They only realise the sweetness of their cherry after its gone. Women are the same, they tend to not see that they have a good man. They just keep looking at the other girls DIC. Females you too need to realise that men only look better in the ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
lb2be 40 M
2  Articles
Friendship is the Key   4/21/2005

I may be have just become a full-fledged man, at the age of 21 and three-quarters, but there is certainly one thing that I've learned about relationships. Unless it is founded on a friendship, it is doomed for failure. I have been privileged to have a significant other for three years and I know that if the small things between us weren't there, we would no longer be together. Think ...


0 Comments, 154 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
rm_tightnkinky 41 F
3  Articles
Sleep with a guy on the first date or not?   4/21/2005

I have been on this site for six months or so and i have meet quite a few men. I will be honest and say that i have slept with most not all on the first meeting, but i do talk to them and get to know them thur emails and phone calls first before i even meet them. My question is; Is this a turn off for men to create a realationship later on? Why is it still ok for men to sleep with women on ...


0 Comments, 156 Views, 53 Votes ,9.22 Score
How do you stay with the same girl forever?   4/19/2005

Me and my girl have been together for about 7 years or so and recently I can't help looking more at other women. I have tried but can't. Any suggestions?


1 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
I'm a first timer!!   4/19/2005

I am a first timer user of this service and i am interested to know if it really works. My friends say its just a con. So im asking u the users to prove my friends wrong and hopefully open my eyes to what this service can really deliver!!


2 Comments, 24 Views, 29 Votes ,5.15 Score
pickup lines   4/19/2005

do girls still go for guy's cheesy pickup lines?


2 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes
rm_SCUBA602 50 M
5  Articles
When's the best time to start getting rough?   4/19/2005

How do you come about to get into rougher sex? Mega-hair pulling, whips, hard spanks and slaps, etc etc? I've had prior relationships where she said get rougher, but I'm not sure of the limits and it seems to be pulling teeth for them to let me know.. Anyone have a better solution than I tried- Talking about it?


3 Comments, 101 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Relationship not SEX   4/19/2005

All over the world most people are interested in entering into a relationship because of sex, but it goes way beyoung sex.I shall use my self as an example, i met this handsome guy last two years and i really liked him we stated from friends and then one night i was sitting in front of my house which is his house as well becuase his brother came to rent an partment there.so as i was saying, ...


1 Comments, 241 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
luvs2eatpussy56 68 M
7  Articles
What are you looking for   4/19/2005

Now let's be serious about this. This is a sex and swinger personals site. So what are you looking for? If it is a long-term relationship then just how much does sex factor into it? What would you expect from advertising on this site? I've seen some profiles from women that seemed real nice. But are they really, I would honestly have to give them the benefit of the doubt. Honesty is ...


4 Comments, 141 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
rm_Hilltoper46 37 M
1  Article
Getting back together with ex-gf   4/19/2005

My gf and I broke up 8 months ago, and I havent been able to think of anyone else except her. We both knew that we loved eachother, but figured that the time wasnt right yet. We still keep in touch since we both live close to eachother and go to the same university. Recently shes been seein a new guy but I can tell she isnt that happy with him. We havent talked about getting back ...


4 Comments, 233 Views, 15 Votes ,2.67 Score
deadcoad 46 M
2  Articles
Aunty in my next door   4/19/2005

When I look out at a Married woman next door she is exposing her brests too much.Is it a sexual invitation for me? Plaese advice.


2 Comments, 492 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
Pet Names   4/19/2005

To men & women who think it's okay to use pet names with someone you just meet...think again. Being single & not in any relationship at the moment, I don't care for a women to call me: <br> Darling Sweetie Honey Hun Babe etc... <br> For the most part, I may have just started talking to you & don't know you nor do you know me. The same goes for men who do the ...


14 Comments, 323 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
Creativesoulsin1 47,1946 C
10  Articles
Trust while trisiting in a relationship   4/18/2005

Tristing~ Do you know what that is? You know its when you play in AdultFriendFinder land~ that is you are here to get hooked up with others of like mind. The one thing that you truly need in order to make things work while having fun here and being in a relationship is to trust each other. That is work at communication and what you want. Set the boundries that will set you and your ...


1 Comments, 197 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
FreeAgain21 60 F
8  Articles
Being Bi-sexual   4/18/2005

I am bi-sexual and have had alot of problems establishing a lasting relationship with either male or female. I am always upfront about my sexuality from the start of any relationship. My partners tell me they have no problem with the fact that I am bi-sexual, and love to have sex. Yet, there always comes a time when my sexuality is thrown in my face. (Usually with me being accused of ...


3 Comments, 185 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
wifey3223 55 F
20  Articles
TRYING,to know alot of AdultFriendFinder,members,get noticed more.   4/10/2005

Hello, once again, everyone or some did not understand my holler article, caps comments.someone comented , people were gonna complain about caps .Did , they mean letters (I HEARD BIG LETTERS MEAN YOURE SCREAMING).thats not my intention, i just write in any casing.i thought, in chat rooms he meant was.i cursing him .lolsome of you, indent more, i will learn better soon..... alot of men just ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
dont ever stop building   4/9/2005

2 years ago after umpteen years of marriage me and my husband decided to finally split. I wont go into detail but the once happy relationship was dead and had been for a while. For the childrens sake we wanted to part on good terms, after just one week it became clear we couldn't be apart, we started dating again and fell in love all over again, last year on our 14th wedding anniversary we ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
rm_sidedish4u2 51 M
2  Articles
Dont give 100% you will loose yourself and your other half (pt2)   4/8/2005

Part 2 --The 80% giver-- Well by now I'm sure you know that I'm a lil off the deep end. Especially that I'm writing this article as a married man seeking fullfilment.. because nobody's perfect, remember. I came to a harsh realization that I wasn't going to find anyone to return unconditional love as I would want to receive it. Because every time I gave 100% they expected more and more ...


1 Comments, 154 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
Like a mile race...   4/3/2005

You don't want to start out sprinting off the line and give everything you have at the beginning only to be exhausted after the first quarter-mile with nothing left to give nor do you want to start off too slow to let everyone take such a lead you can't catch up and win in the end. Many of our friends have made this mistake and lost the other party over and over again from making this ...


0 Comments, 160 Views, 21 Votes ,4.24 Score
So the wedding is approaching...   4/3/2005

So yeah the wedding is approaching now at an increadible speed and I am getting a little cold in the feet thinking what sex is going to be like after we have tied the knot. I know i have heard over and over that the sex just gets beter, thats all good, I'm worried about the frequency. We do it now like once every 2 weeks and the wedding is a month away and I'm not feeling so good about ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
tigers20022 56,2013 C
2  Articles
why is that   3/31/2005

why is it on AdultFriendFinder that you build up a good relationship (or you think so)and then when the topic of meeting up comes up the other party seems to get cold feet. im not say they should jump straight into bed or anything but they should meet up as even if the bed sene or what ever you want dos'ent come off good friendship could happen. so please people give it a go, you might just enjoy it.


9 Comments, 330 Views, 26 Votes ,4.00 Score
The first kiss   3/31/2005

If you were on a first date and the woman you were with turned out to be a bad kisser, would it be shallow to end it right there?


5 Comments, 270 Views, 16 Votes ,3.57 Score