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popcorn23 38 M
3  Articles
Nervous..!!!   12/1/2004

I always seem to forget how nervous it can be going on a 'First Date' with someone. Besides a casual hello or small talk it is pretty much going to dinner with a stranger. You don't know a lot about each other then just the basics like name, what you do for a living, where you live, etc. What makes it different I realized as I got ready this weekend for my date was that there is a nervous ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 46 Votes ,7.18 Score
chitown69us 57 C
6  Articles
stripper and couples   11/30/2004

I'm a part-time exotic dancer and I can speak for most (but not all) dancers when I say this. Guys, GO AHEAD AND BRING YOUR LADIES to the strip club!! I love to see women watch me perform. There is a right and wrong way to do this however. The wrong way would be to bring your lady when she's not in the mood, or to ignore her once you get there! Instead, talk sexy about both the dancer and ...


3 Comments, 449 Views, 124 Votes ,8.59 Score
what do women like to do?   11/29/2004

what would be the ideal first date in college? dinner and drinks, dinner and a movie, just going out for drinks?


1 Comments, 160 Views, 39 Votes ,2.02 Score
MrJustAGuy 39 M
1  Article
Kissing on the first date   11/28/2004

How do you make the move to kiss on the date? Is it ok to kiss on the first date? I'm inexperienced and don't know.


0 Comments, 43 Views, 25 Votes ,3.13 Score
sex.sex.sex   11/26/2004

Sex on the 1st date is great, but i think it hurts the relationship every 1st date that i have had sex on has turned out not to last


0 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
sex   11/26/2004

on my first date i try to suck her ass, if she says no then theres no second date


0 Comments, 61 Views, 35 Votes ,0.68 Score
First Meeting   11/26/2004

After long email/IM contact with this person, I am wondering the safe way of meeting them face to face -- Any help out there?


3 Comments, 34 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
rm_shezamystry 66 F
8  Articles
First date.... last date.   11/23/2004

First date.... last date. <br> <br> Respectful and interesting, even, but no chemistry to be seen, heard or felt. Before we left for the meet, we knew there would be no play that day. Within minutes of seeing each other we knew there’d be none at all anyway. A Gent he was. Naww He didn’t open doors for me or a lot of all that which i happen to like, butttt ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 54 Votes ,7.62 Score
Ultimate first meeting   11/20/2004

We begin the usual way, exchanging emails here and there, then came more photographs, and soon we were talking on the phone. His voice was pleasant. It was a turn on just listening to his voice. When he had to go out of town, he called me when he was available to let me know he was thinking of me. I really enjoyed that. Phone sex was the next step. I am usually not crazy about that, but ...


1 Comments, 77 Views, 50 Votes ,7.65 Score
Great First Dates for me...   11/20/2004

A first date, should be getting to know the person your with, good communication, finding out if your compatible, seeing if there is chemistry between you, and basically relax and enjoy the night. Sometimes it takes a few dates to really understand what's going through a persons mind.


2 Comments, 105 Views, 55 Votes ,6.25 Score
standing in the light   11/18/2004

i went to a party that i didnt want to go un-awhere what what going to happen. my mate drag to a big party i was invited too but he drag me along we brought some lager and beers to buy our way in the party was in full swing which was good as i cought hide away from the host and enjoy the party. i saw sexy girl looking at me around about midnight she walk over and started to chat small ...


0 Comments, 175 Views, 26 Votes ,3.35 Score
Sex on first date....   11/16/2004

There are alot of guys out there that like sex on a first date. In ways, that sometimes makes a lady feel cheap if she goes along with it. I don't want to feel like a slut either if I do go along on a first date. What would you do in this case? Have sex or wait?


3 Comments, 233 Views, 82 Votes ,6.24 Score
Pulling out during an encounter.   11/15/2004

I met an older lady on AdultFriendFinder. She was a housewife in her 40's and I'm in my 30's. She had never met anyone on here before and we chatted for a few months befor we met. She was reluctant to meet anyone and always said that she needed someone to come over and ravage her and leave her dripping wet. Anyway she finally invited me over to her house. We talked for a awhile and then I started ...


2 Comments, 254 Views, 32 Votes ,5.49 Score
keith40505 60 M
7  Articles
Getting the straight guy (ok Bi guy MM)   11/13/2004

I met him my first day on the job. He as a punk. Shaved head though, but heavily tatooed and pierced. He was sex on a stick. He was a real flirt with the ladies. He was always making them melt with his charms. But he had a softer edge when it was just me and him. He let it slip that he was not 100% straight. It was then I decided to take a slow road. For the next few weeks, we'd ...


2 Comments, 452 Views, 32 Votes ,5.58 Score
Newbe   11/12/2004

Girls, what is a fun creative first date that a guy has taken you on that you really enjoyed?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
My Lover, My Buddy   11/12/2004

The meeting of two new lovers was fresh on my mind, knowing that after our initial first acquaintance, soon the passion which I felt, and I hoped that he felt would be there the next time we engaged. The intellectual intercourse we had at the candy store was most comfortable, making me yearn for his touch, his warmth, his passion. I thought to myself, can this handsome man be for real? ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 36 Votes ,7.73 Score
rm_firedarkOxxx 50 M
1  Article
why first is not as good as third   11/8/2004

whenever I meet a new partner it takes a few days till we get to make each other come heavily why it s rear to happen on first date.


0 Comments, 33 Views, 18 Votes ,2.44 Score
wish I could get a first date   11/7/2004

comeing back at this again you guys are right so women what do we do?you are looking for men married or not why do you ingnore us? are we meaning us men saying the wrong things or are you that picky or you only looking for rich and gooding looking guys because if so then in are looking for very shollow men, and if so you then you all are liveing in a dream world that can hurt you more than ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
justbrowsing15 47 M
1  Article
New to AdultFriendFinder   11/7/2004

Hi everyone! <br> I'm new to AdultFriendFinder, and I'm trying to find out how to go about meeting people. When you aren't a Silver/Gold member it seems to be quite difficult. When I see someone that I'm interested in by searching is there a way that I can let them know that I'm interested. I know that I might get more attention by posting a picture I simply need to try to remain discrete. ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 37 Votes ,7.55 Score
Where are we meeting again?   11/6/2004

Where do most friends that have met on AdultFriendFinder go for first dates? I have heard that you want to stay in public, but what if things go really great the meeting progresses to some heavy action? Seems like you could find yourself in loads of trouble out in public, or is that part of the excitement? It’s not like we are all teenagers humping in the back of the two-door.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
LatinnFrench 57 C
2  Articles
Red Alert, Listen to this!   11/6/2004

If you meet somebody that you really like, and you want to have a serious relationship, that will last then I advice you that don't sleep with him the first time you go out, it is important you tease him and seduce him in a good way, look at him, stand up and walk very close to him, whisper to him, touch his hand, feel close to his body, but only tease, healthy tease, and if he also wants ...


2 Comments, 24 Views, 44 Votes ,6.87 Score
first AdultFriendFinder meeting   11/5/2004

I had replied to a profile and the wife contacted me, we arranged to meet for coffee and see if we hit it off and then ... She was interested so we went to a motel where I proceeded to undress her as she was slowly removing my clothes too. After a short while mutually caressing we moved to the bed and got to know each other a bit better. The little noises she made as my hand s moved over ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 56 Votes ,4.25 Score
Advice wanted as I approach my first date   11/4/2004

I will hopefully be going on a date with someone from this site very, very soon. <br> Anyone with any advice on how to approach this first meeting would please me if they could offer advice


2 Comments, 5 Views, 6 Votes
wish I could get a first date from AdultFriendFinder   11/3/2004

My wife has gotten three men from AdultFriendFinder but I haven't gotten any at all any tips on how to succeed?


4 Comments, 40 Views, 23 Votes ,4.18 Score
3somfun4u 55 C
1  Article
why are people never themselves?   11/3/2004

You ever noticed how plastic a person can be on a first date? It's like a in church, on their best behavior, with their plastic smile..why can't they be themselves?


3 Comments, 50 Views, 59 Votes ,8.16 Score
a succuss story   11/1/2004

I actually wanted to let every member out there know that this site works. I found my current boyfriend or should I say he found me here. He sent me a message in May and then we messaged for a while. We didn't met durning that time. He went back to an old girlfriend I never let this one go thou I messaged him and said send a message if you ever are in the area. And he did he had broke up ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 42 Votes ,6.39 Score
Guys Looking for Guys with the Word "Aggressive" in the Profile?   10/28/2004

I'm a guy looking for a guy. I came upon a profile that stated that this one guy was "aggressive". Immediately, I was wondering why the word describing this guy was aggressive. You other guys know that we are looking for a mellow guy that we can get along well with, right? Well, I emailed the guy and told him I liked his profile, but the word "aggressive" concerned me. I told him I could ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 29 Votes ,1.03 Score
rm_bman_reno 40 M
4  Articles
Guys: Learn to dance   10/26/2004

I've discovered that a great way to impress a girl is if you're willing to take her out dancing. Most girls love it but far fewer guys are willing to do it, especially younger guys. Taking her out to a club is a great first date and who knows, maybe you'll get lucky


1 Comments, 13 Views, 31 Votes ,5.73 Score
There is no right way to handle it   10/21/2004

When you become a member of a site like this one, it is generally assumed that you're looking primarily for sex. If we can take this as a given, it would also be safe to assume that those who are fellow members will be equipped for the task. That's only logical, right? Color me astonished recently when this proved not to be the case. Over the couple of months of my membership here, I've had ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
What 2 wear   10/20/2004

What should you wear on a first date?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score