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Why do guys keep hitting on me? 10/28/2004
I keep getting e-mails from guys. I want to have women contact
me. I try to be nice because I am really a nice guy and I want
to make friends, but I want to have sex with women. If a woman
were to contact me, I might respond with a yes rather than
a no thanks. How do I get more women to contact me. I am a straight
man who will respond to women, but not to any man besides
Bradley Pitt, ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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This site is a big joke! 10/28/2004
I have come to realize that this site is a big fat joke.
What a waste of time!
1 Comments, 21 Views,
6 Votes
,0.52 Score
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re: what is so hard in saying "no thanks" 10/25/2004
There are so many problems involved with saying "thank
you for your interest, but no thanks".
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First and foremost. Many if not most messages that women
and couples get are from people who do not meet many or all
of their preferences. Your SEX, age, distance and body
type/race/wants are always of the utmost importance.
If you are a guy looking for women, 18 to 25, slim, and ...
2 Comments, 9 Views,
29 Votes
,8.05 Score
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what is so hard in saying..........no thanks... 10/25/2004
Find it very rude when you mail someone, and they dont even
reply....?? what is so hard in saying..no thanks......??
always reply to people, an politely too....
0 Comments, 29 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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why so many suffer from amnesia,relating to their profiles.......... 10/25/2004
Why is it that so many women, on this site are so full of themselves...?
Dont ever reply to mails, totally ignore you, but on reading
their profiles, they are seeking men.
i've noticed some of them don't even bother to
check you out, yet the same people, in chat room xplain
their failed meetings with other members..perhaps had
they responded to my mail, it would have been better.
...
1 Comments, 36 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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re: what is so hard in saying "no thanks" 10/25/2004
Oftentimes I get emails from people who send "broadcast"
emails, i.e. one generic email sent to many people hoping
for a response. Examples of these are "Hey babe, loved
your pic. Wanna get together?" when I don't have
a picture posted on my profile. Or "Hey read your profile
and I think we'd be hot together" from someone
who is 20 years younger than I. These emails never contain
a ...
2 Comments, 14 Views,
34 Votes
,8.09 Score
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Re: Question for the guys. 10/17/2004
Yes. She wasn’t my type on the personal level and also wasn’t
attractive to me physically.
p.s. she smelled like I was in a barn
0 Comments, 14 Views,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score
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what do you gotta do to get laid? 10/17/2004
I just thought i would ask the question....is it the apperance
or the game?????
1 Comments, 12 Views,
18 Votes
,3.53 Score
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Sorry not interested 10/15/2004
Why does it seem that when a man has a steady piece of ass, the
women of his past keep coming around looking for some.But
when said man is single, he's treated like he has the
plague.Seems to me that women get turned on by sticking
it to other woman.
0 Comments, 14 Views,
22 Votes
,7.21 Score
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No Means No 10/15/2004
What do you do when someone e-mails you. You check the profile
and decide he is not a match for you. You don't reply.
The next day he e-mails you again. You answer and tell him
no he is not a good match. You wish him well. Then again he
emails asking why not and won't stop. Do you have to
be rude to get someone to understand NO means No?
4 Comments, 13 Views,
23 Votes
,6.28 Score
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Re: No Thanks 10/13/2004
I agree. As a fella, I write lots of emails hoping for a reply. When no reply comes after say 2 weeks, I have many more emails which MAY elicit a reply so I delete the old ones. I do not think I am God's gift to women. I am VERY grateful to the many ladies who have become my 'on-line' partners through this site. I am still hopeful that one of them will one day meet me. Till then I live in ...
1 Comments, 16 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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does anyone have some advice for saying no thanks? 10/10/2004
I find it very hard to say "I am not interested" I am always afraid of hurting somones feeling. I do not lead the person on or anything * I think that is wrong * But I avoid answering and I know this is wrong also. How can I get better at saying not interested??
2 Comments, 21 Views,
6 Votes
,5.64 Score
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If you don't want us to call, don't give your number! 10/8/2004
A lot of younger women have a tendency to want to avoid saying
'no' to someone who tries to get their number even
if they don't actually like them. I guess they figure
it's more polite and easier to deal with guys by just
giving away their number and not returning calls but it's
really misleading and annoying.
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Try to be honest and direct: If you don't want to give
out your ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
22 Votes
,7.45 Score
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Sometimes there's no way around it... 10/7/2004
Sometime they're just too damn fat or too damn ugly
to fuck. And you should just tell them that instead of leading
them on and hurting their feelings.
1 Comments, 17 Views,
15 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Respectfully Saying No Thanks 10/6/2004
Have you ever meticulously poured over a "Matches" profile, then drafted a detailed email to them only to never hear from them at all. I don't think a response should be expected from sent winks or mindless network invitations. However if someone has taken the time to draft a personalized email, that was respectful, witty, inquisitive, and non pushy, the recipient should at least respond with a ...
1 Comments, 110 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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That's you in that picture! 10/6/2004
That’s you in that picture!
Yeah, maybe 5 years ago when your boobs weren’t sagging
to your thighs. I realize people want to look good but is
it fair to mislead those that you are talking to? More than
once, we have met with people who their pictures are at least
5 years old and do not look anything like their pictures
they sent. I am honest with the people I talk to on ...
1 Comments, 38 Views,
75 Votes
,8.21 Score
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saying no thanks 10/5/2004
The hardest thing I had to do was say 'no thanks' to a man. After chatting for months I just can't bring myself to meet him.. he is too nice for me. Mr perfect in every way shape and form. Oh well, so life goes.
0 Comments, 15 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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The word NO. 10/2/2004
The word no is a womens gun in society, once she pulls it out
everyone will stop and think twice about the situation.
However, what if a man was to say no, it doesn't have
a strong meaning whereas comming from a women, why is that?
I have said no but the women thought I was joking but I was
not, do you understand the case tell me what you think should
the word no be universal everyone can ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
18 Votes
,5.44 Score
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the hard way to tell a girl off 9/30/2004
well i recently been dateing since the end of a serious relationship.
all i see i am doing is turning girls down for some strange
reason. im not sure what the problem is. i need someones
advice on how to help my problem .
1 Comments, 44 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Men who just can't take no for an answer! 9/29/2004
Why is it that AdultFriendFinder users sometimes will email you over and
over asking why you declined their network invitation??
0 Comments, 61 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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Don't be an ass 9/26/2004
Lady's don't be an ass about saying no. You have
no idea the balls it takes to ask someone to have sex. IF you
don't want just say youg rather not. And if i guy doesn't
want to have sex for whatever reason, don't be an ass
to him now either. Your both adults so act like it.
1 Comments, 12 Views,
13 Votes
,1.63 Score
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Nothing 9/22/2004
The easiest way to let someone know you aren't interested
of course is to say nothing. That however is rude, or a bit
snobbish at the very least. Now as a man on this site we tend
not to get all that many emails outside of the spammers or
so it would seem by many articles I have read etc. so do the
right thing and let the real ladies replying to your ad know
that you aren't interested. As ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
14 Votes
,5.38 Score
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Here is my No Thanks 9/20/2004
OK guys lisen up here is my "No Thanks, I'm not
interested"
If someone does not take the time to read my profile and does
not come close to what I am seeking on here I don't bother
with the NO THANKS. Females get to much mail to weed through
to send off a no thanks to everyone especially those that
cleary did not read the profile.
Then when we do we get the "WHY NOT"? or you hurt
their ...
1 Comments, 7 Views,
16 Votes
,5.92 Score
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How to break off when they want more than you do? 9/19/2004
Ive never quite known how to tell a woman who wants more than
I do, after we've slept together, that I'm not
looking for the same kind of relationship that I am...that
casual relationships are more my thing. any help?
2 Comments, 32 Views,
25 Votes
,4.68 Score
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Why we don't respond 9/18/2004
After being on this site for awhile, some of us get many,
many responses, and it's just a matter of weeding out
the ones we are interested in. A good example is someone
from Africa, asking to start a relationship, when you live
in North America, nottt, most of us are looking for locals,
not someone you can't touch. Also, the ones that claim
to read your profile but seemed to have missed ...
2 Comments, 90 Views,
73 Votes
,8.25 Score
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... and receiving a "No Thanks" 8/21/2004
Many people - especially many women here - have abandoned
extending a polite "Thanks, but no thanks"
approach. Many started out with good intentions. But they've
found that offering this polite response can often be more
hassle than it's worth.
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Some of the contacts they've rejected get all needy.
Instead of accepting that the person they first approached
was not interested, ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
41 Votes
,7.86 Score
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It's really rather simple.. 8/11/2004
Be polite: "Thanks for your interest, but no thanks."
That should suffice. You don't have to give a reason,
you don't have to apologize. If you are not interested,
just drop an email and let the guy know. No wasted time, no
hard feelings. I'm sure men find it much less frustrating
to be told "no thanks" than to be ignored.. I
know I would.
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I have had guys write ...
2 Comments, 266 Views,
50 Votes
,8.25 Score
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Learn to Accept Rejection 7/25/2004
I don't know if it's a common problem, but a lot
of the guys I talk to on here have a big problem with rejection.
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A lot of guys beg for a "not interested" or a "no
thanks" when they email or chat with me, but I have
had so many bad experiences that I have a hard time with it.
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Also, the pure number of people who email me is amazing.
I can get up to 300 emails ...
1 Comments, 67 Views,
39 Votes
,7.23 Score
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Replying to messages 7/4/2004
Why do so many members on AdultFriendFinder do not reply to your messages
or they wink at you and never send you a message to just say
hello?
1 Comments, 113 Views,
24 Votes
,2.90 Score
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Getting the point across without being rude 7/1/2004
How do you get the point across to some people on AdultFriendFinder whom
you are not interested in because of age, location, looks
etc. I am the first to admit, I like cute guys under 35. Anything
older than that, I really have a hard time being attracted
to. How do you tell someone (who may be really nice and sweet)
that they are flat out ugly and you would never have relations
with them. Thanks
3 Comments, 46 Views,
21 Votes
,3.74 Score
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