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swtcouple4fun 60 C
36  questions
I am waiting ....zzz - 7/12/2008

When a male had FMF hook up, when they cum the first round, how long should the other female need to wait to enjoy the night?

19 response(s), 20 votes
laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Of Legal Age - 7/12/2008

Online Now! Member Since: July 19, 2007 Birthdate: December 15, 1989 (18 years old)

Is it me or did this member join AdultFriendFinder when they were a 17 year old? Since they will be 19 in December 2008 that means they were on the sight for 5 months and not of legal majority age.

I have seen several profiles where the age of the member was questionable compared to member since displayed? ...

20 response(s), 24 votes
Pictures - 7/12/2008

Why do people post theclose up nude photos and not at least a clothed body shot? Would rather know what they look like than just the nude shots.

24 response(s), 23 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Pure romance - 7/12/2008

Hanu, my wife, attended a party a few months back. It was sort of like the old tupperware parties, except this one is a Pure Romance party. The consultant bring along various sex products. These include such things as lubes , vibrators and other stuff for having fun.

One of the products, and the reason for this post is called Coochy. It is a rash free shave cream for the nether ...

9 response(s), 16 votes
rm_matey501 70 M
1  question
A question for all about watching M/M sex. - 7/12/2008

I read a question and the responses about whether watching two men having sex was a turn on or a turn off. A large majority seem to consider it a turn off. My question is, most everyone, men and women, find watching two women together very erotic and a turn on while watching two men a turn off and I would like to know why? Is it a conditional thing, like you were brought up to think of two men ...

14 response(s), 18 votes
rm_hrdhbt2brk 53 M
6  questions
ladies you like men shaved, trimmed, or natural - 7/12/2008

I just wanted to past this question to you ladies. I love my woman shaved and started to think what woman like? I am shaved clean, and have been for a couple years now. sure would like to know what you ladies think about this subject. ...

9 response(s), 8 votes
cjok2 49 F
1  question
lubrication - 7/12/2008

Hello, just wondered if you can help?, today after a very long time of trying i managed to have anal sex - my partner is extremely big so we need to use a lub, we ended up using baby oil and i wondered if there was anything else we could use that wasnt so messy - dont get me wrong it was great fun getting the oil smothered all over me and there was no complaints from him

21 response(s), 16 votes
Blkcuple4u2Cus 41 C
13  questions
Horoscope - 7/12/2008

Which horoscope signs are more likely to be swingers? Just a questions, but curious to know. Thanks

6 response(s), 15 votes
jilo33 86 M
3  questions
What is ~~ ISO ~~~???? - 7/12/2008

What is the meaning of ISO ?????

12 response(s), 13 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Raise your hand if your sure! - 7/12/2008

Who all really needs some very enthusiastic toe curling fellatio or cunnilingus this afternoon and tonight and in the morning? ...

20 response(s), 46 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
swingers nightmare! - 7/12/2008

you notice that your wife only want to have sex with one particular couple and no one else.she would wait hours to be screw by that individual.would you let it bother you?

17 response(s), 40 votes
rm_rjc36_us 53 M
39  questions
What is in A phone? - 7/12/2008

What would you do if you lost your cell phone? One of my relatives told me she lost her cell phone when she accidentally tossed it out of a car window going down the road. It was night time and they went back to look for it but no luck. They even tried to call it to hear or see it light up but no luck. Losing the phone was just the tip of things because she had some privet pictures and texts on ...

15 response(s), 16 votes
rm_deemar69xxx 47 C
1  question
Bi Female or Bi Male ? - 7/12/2008

We have always had Bi females over for fun which we enjoy alot but I think its about time we had a Bi male as Ive watched this on porn movies and it gets me realy hot. Don't you think us ladies should have what we want as well ?

25 response(s), 42 votes
How do I know if I am any good? - 7/11/2008

I guess I ought to start this off by saying that I have never been sexually active. I have recently met someone that I believe I could see my self sleeping with. How do I know I am doing it right? He is 9 years older and has been quite active. Any tips or advice?!?

21 response(s), 16 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
its summertime again! - 7/11/2008

and here comes the speedo! do guys thinks wearing speedo's makes them look more appealling?

11 response(s), 15 votes
Blow Jobs - 7/11/2008

Do Women (or Men) prefer a man who cums in the first ten minutes of a Blow Job or does everyone like it to last longer? Does your mouth get tired? Do you rest and fondle his balls?

18 response(s), 38 votes
Im4orgasms 62 M
6  questions
All about driving - 7/11/2008

Why do so many women feel the need to tell us about what they like when they are driving? I must have read 10 profiles in the last week where they state......"when I'm out driving, I like to see where the road takes me" or "I like to get to my destination quick" What are we men supposed to infer from this? Why do we care? When I'm out driving, I like to get a BJ but that sure doesnt happen ...

15 response(s), 22 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Big tits, big dicks, small pussies, fine bubble butt asses, long tongues & full pouty sucking lips!? - 7/11/2008

All of us here at this site have some or most all of these features.

We got it all, don't we???

What have you got out of this and or like the most?

Emphasize all you need to.
...

17 response(s), 45 votes
bisexy47 76 M
1  question
how much is enough? - 7/11/2008

I can't seem to get enough sex, I am always horny. Is there a man woman couple that can please me?

14 response(s), 29 votes
rm_pradeep4 35 M
38  questions
Masturbation - 7/11/2008

I was wondering what people use during masturbation. Like for example, I mainly use toilet paper to cum on and to clean with. What do other people use to clean up with... read somewhere of some pple using wet wipes...i haven't tried that one yet... what would u all suggest... thanks

15 response(s), 25 votes
laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Another question about Mail - 7/10/2008

Just a simple question here.

Email Filters/Confirmed ID.

When responding to mail received from a member that has their filter set for confirmed ID and being that I do not have confirmed ID, does my reply go to their inbox or filtered?

A similar question.

If I initiate email to a member with confirmed ID filter set knowing that it will go to their filtered box, ...

11 response(s), 16 votes
missing223 41 F
2  questions
how long did it take to have your first orgasm? - 7/10/2008

Ok, so im thinking this question is pretty much for women.... (though men are more than welcome to respond) See, i think im a late bloomer, i never had an orgasm until i was 16, (getting myself off) and i never had one during intercourse until about 18-19... I was wondering what the age was for other women

18 response(s), 23 votes
horny4u200780 30 M
1  question
Emailing question - 7/10/2008

I have question for the ladies. when guys email you, what are some of the things they say that show that they are desparate? Specific lines would be great. I just dont want to come across that way as i email people im interested in meeting or whatever.

13 response(s), 20 votes
Im4orgasms 62 M
6  questions
Hot list - 7/10/2008

I feel like a virgin on this site. Can someone explain the benefit of being on the hotlist site or being friend of. Cant see the value.

13 response(s), 21 votes
Wan2JamU 65 M
17  questions
Pictures of the face!! - 7/10/2008

Some people live in communities where they are wary of having their face on AdultFriendFinder. Yet some of these very same people will tell you in their profile 'no face pic, no reply'!!! I know some smartypants is going to write 'preference!!', but, why should someone who is not willing to post a face picture expect one in the first reply????

9 response(s), 23 votes
am_just_looking 60 F
2  questions
When in the process of meeting someone - 7/10/2008

I'm trying to find a balance between meeting people on this website and other types. Here's my question - I've had a couple meetings with a man from here, and we appear to be headed for some fun, possibly within the next two times we meet. But here's the thing...when I see that he's online, it makes me feel funny. Which is ridiculous because I'm online, too. So I know my response is not ...

16 response(s), 29 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Fetish. - 7/10/2008

I was wondering as to what was the strangest fetish you have ever heard of or taken part of?

12 response(s), 25 votes
rm_jbrocksit 37 F
1  question
Is it unusual to only be attracted to older men? - 7/10/2008

I've been married twice, and have had a few fairly dedicated relationships with men, but they've all been older...much older than I am. Anywhere from 14 to 25 years older. I just adore older men. Am I odd? It's more than just experience, unselfishness, appreciativeness, stamina, it's sexier to me. Am I the only one who can't get excited about men their own (or less) age? Anybody else find older ...

26 response(s), 26 votes
rm_greekness31 52 F
1  question
i want to sleep with a women - 7/10/2008

its going to be my fist time. not sure how to be...all i do is think about it. sld i go with someone that has experiance

18 response(s), 30 votes
rm_kyren88 54 M
5  questions
Ok let me have it ! What am I doin wrong? - 7/10/2008

Ok so here goes.1. It seems that I have a knack for offending females at will or at least by accident on a regular basis. I tried to make my profile specific about what I wanted not to be rude or offensive. I know not everybody is after the same thing I am. I'm not advertising for my profile either but if you are so inclined please take a look and point out the shit i'm doin wrong.2. why is that ...

15 response(s), 32 votes