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gent1015 66 M
6  questions
Has this happen to you - 6/26/2008

Ok I am sure this has happen to many of you woman, But guys has this happen to you? I met this lady last week. not from this site but from another.the plan was to meet for 1 hour a drink and talk.She was very upset that I would not let her come to my house after woulds.She kept telling me it was her size.Not true I thought she was very sexy an pretty, I just didn't think I new here well ...

11 response(s), 15 votes
rm_jetsetter63 52 M
4  questions
Whats really happening here - 6/26/2008

I remain a standard member due to the fact of the ratio of the men to women.I find this somewhat difficut to understand? I don't get it why this site won't allow you a few days grace period to email or be allowed to view mail. One would think that this would be more of a draw to join.

16 response(s), 19 votes
Lotsoffuncouple1 56 C
9  questions
Successful........... - 6/26/2008

For those of you who consider yourself to be successful on AdultFriendFinder, what do you contribute that success to?

Why do some people seem to have such bad luck while others seem to do so well?

13 response(s), 24 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
September 11, 2001 (9/11) - Where Were You When? - 6/26/2008

The exact place you were on September 11th, 2001, as the news of the terrorists attack on America at the World Trade Center, will most likely be remembered by everyone that is/was old enough to remember.

I was at work; sitting at my desk when it was announced over the radio. At first, I wasn't sure I heard right. A co-worker went flying to turn the radio up as we sat and listened. ...

23 response(s), 23 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Smile! You've Just Been Caught Doing? - 6/26/2008

Anyone ever caught you doing something you didn't wanna get caught doing?

SMILE! YOU'VE JUST BEEN CAUGHT DOING, WHAT?

10 response(s), 18 votes
Married, but not quite what you expect... - 6/26/2008

This really bugs me.

Swinging:

I know I came on scene thinking that it was filled with people who had reached a certain level of maturity regarding sexual behaviour and game playing.

I saw the scene as an honest attempt at squaring the circle, openly facing the reality that maybe we struggle to be monogamous , and this was how people attempted to live the dream of ...

12 response(s), 19 votes
Local ladies - 6/26/2008

how many people have found someone they know through this site?

9 response(s), 17 votes
MFM - 6/26/2008

How many women would like to try a MFM experience. Or is it even a fantasy of most women?

13 response(s), 16 votes
Anal sex - 6/26/2008

How should i approach my next partner about trying anal sex?

12 response(s), 26 votes
Morning sex - 6/26/2008

How many women out there love morning sex?

8 response(s), 13 votes
horny during pregnancy - 6/26/2008

Do women actually get hornier during pregancy?

7 response(s), 11 votes
rm_los_butros 29 M
2  questions
why I don't get any mail from women? - 6/26/2008

I just get mail from guys wanting to hook up but I'm not bi or gay and it reads on my profile but guys still send me mail. But not women. why is that? do I look gay?

23 response(s), 19 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
When the morning sun - 6/26/2008

"When the morning sun streaks across my room, and I've waken up from another dream of you."

Ever been woke up in the morning by your mate giving you oral pleasure?

It do make th day go by better it seems.

Think so?
...

16 response(s), 31 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Music - Songs That Mean Something Special - 6/26/2008

I hear the song, "Power of Love" by Celine Dionne; it brings back memories of a special friend I had many years ago. It doesn't matter where I am or what I'm doing, I always think of him when I hear the song. "Tears in Heaven".... The first time I heard that song, I was racing to Augusta, ME, with the hopes of seeing my dad before he died; I didn't make it. Ironically, I knew when I listened ...

12 response(s), 16 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Virgins?!?!? - 6/26/2008

What is the big issue with taken someone's virginity?

I have a hard time believing that some people can be so shallow that to not want to have sex with someone becuase they are a virgin and that is the only reason.

17 response(s), 19 votes
Bring_it_now555 47 M
5  questions
Ok it think I am starting to get the hang of this thing. - 6/26/2008

I have learned alot form the advice given and kindly recived. Thanks. But now I am courious as to a new subject. I understand there are all types of women ot there and to each of them have different turn on and turn off. I am just looking for some advice about oral. For some women it is the bomb and others just an appetizer. I am looking on some tips to help me improve in this area. Any advice or ...

9 response(s), 13 votes
45selim 67 M
2  questions
Follow up to my last question. - 6/26/2008

For those of you that have profiles on here and have at home, I was just wondering if you have every been caught doing something embarassing to you while chatting or camming?

10 response(s), 10 votes
45selim 67 M
2  questions
Do your know? - 6/26/2008

After being on here for a while and reading some of the profiles I got to wondering if some of us that may have in their teens or older let our know that we use sites such as this to try to find companionship. I believe that it would be easier to keep such information from younger , but not so sure about the older ones that seem to know more about pc technology than their parents do. So do your ...

12 response(s), 12 votes
ASpanishLover 59 M
1  question
¿Por qué no puedo contactar contigo? - 6/26/2008

Gracias

22 response(s), 25 votes
Married - 6/25/2008

Do many married women ever want younger men to fuck without questions?

23 response(s), 28 votes
lancebearer2002 51 M
1  question
Question for the ladies... when is enough too much - 6/25/2008

O.K. reading this months advice mag. I noticed she said that 20-30 min is plenty. Me I typicly am not satisfied till about the hour mark.(not bragging just stating a fact) I know that oral sex can aleviate some of the differences but oral for half an hour her poor mouth would be awfully sore. And her manually masterbating for that time would become dull and boring. So short of finding a woman who ...

15 response(s), 19 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
First move. For the Ladies. - 6/25/2008

If you were attracted to a guy would you, a lady, ask the guy out, make the first move, or would you wait and let the guy make the first move?

Ladies would you also be the one to propose to a guy instead of waiting for him to ask?

17 response(s), 29 votes
66LUV 50 F
46  questions
Bachelorette Party - HELP! - 6/25/2008

Hey Everyone ... I need help!!

I am responsible for the "Scavenger Hunt" part of my future sister-in-law's Bachelorette Party. I am having difficulty trying to think of some original ideas .....

After dinner we are hitting 4 different bars that evening (they all line the streets here in Az).

The issue I am struggling with is- there's ALL different types of women that ...

19 response(s), 21 votes
can your profile be too general? - 6/25/2008

is it better to be choosy..or will that limit your responses?

12 response(s), 18 votes
rm_sexyvoize 47 F
14  questions
~ best feature ~ - 6/25/2008

what is the one thing you like most about yourself ?

is it a character trait or a physical feature ?
...

19 response(s), 17 votes
Honest people........... - 6/25/2008

Why is it that it seems that 99% of the people here say anything to attempt to get laid? Has being honest gone out of fashion?

18 response(s), 28 votes
LickLarge 46 F
1  question
Which way? - 6/25/2008

Ladies, do you prefer bi men or straight men?

17 response(s), 12 votes
kinkydreams378 43 C
2  questions
Safe or Sorry? - 6/25/2008

I am wondering how many people in the lifestyle take the extra precautions they should? We all know that when meeting a couple or a single male or females for fun it can be a little uneasy at times. Some people take offense if you ask them about STDs or even worse get mad if you should ask for any medical proof.

For us, we value our health and we are picky about who we are with. We ask ...

12 response(s), 11 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Wolf whistle! - 6/25/2008

For the guys and gals.

When was the last time you heard a sharp clear loud wolf whistle blown in your direction?

Or did you blow it yourself at someone?

What do you think about them, good or bad?
...

18 response(s), 33 votes
Orgasm with no direct stimulation - 6/25/2008

I've always known it was possible to orgasm without direct stimulation, as often those naughty dreams will result in a nice little extra buzz, but I'd never really thought about it further.

Until this morning. I was giving my partner a really juicy blowjob and just as he was starting to reach his orgasm, I was hijacked suddenly by my own.

Cue very startled face and look of ...

9 response(s), 21 votes